Blind date

These days passes so fast that i hardly can understand which day exactly we have, almost every day at work. Today i had the second chinese lesson, i am impressed how easily you can learn foreing language when you are in this country. Everyday i hear more words that i have already learned and sometimes i can even understand the context :D. The truth is that here in China, you MUST learn chinese. Especially in the place like DanYang (small city), not many people can speak english. Sometimes i feel really disconcerted when people around me talk only in chinese, but i stopped thinking that it is impolite, instead of this, i am trying to understand what are they talking about. But... still it is very hard:D

So, what is my goal now is to  grit my teeth and learn this beautiful language, even though after working 9 hours a day the only thing i would like to do is to have a rest.

Another interesting fact about chinese people:  BLIND DATE
Almost everyone in china has the same dream- find a good job, have a good salary and find a wife. Ok, you could say that everywhere is the same but here it is more complicated.

Parents must accept your future husband/wife. Here in China, parent`s opinion is extremely important. If they do not accept your girlfriend/boyfriend, there is a small chance that these people will be married.

I have a impression that here in China, feelings are not so important, people find another person, just to have baby and follow "the crowd"( i have wife, child so i am happy). In China there is no place for romantic, crazy love.

It is common that the first girl, boy you have- will be your wife/husband.

It was so strange and at the same time so fascinating for my chinese friends that i have had already few girlfriends.


There are many situation in which chinese people who ar more than 25 , taking part in blind date. In order to find a future  the closest person, and for them, it does not matter if you are beautiful or not, the most important is if you have a job, if you are a good person and how do you behave